Samwana

Much has been said about rapists. In the African culture sometimes when a woman says NO she means YES-at times even when accepting a cup of tea! Many men will bear me witness that at one time or another they have approached a girl who says no but once they pull her aside, she fails to resist. In this case such a girl prefers to be called weak rather than easygoing. Such a man will be termed rapist by those who are critical while in the real sense the girl has consented in a very subtle manner. If castration becomes the legal punishment for rapists then many men will be innocent victims.  Psychologists state that women feel better when slight force is used against them. This is true because some girls will be ready for sex but accepting it becomes a big deal. Some women were taught as young girls that showing signs of enjoying sex is a taboo. So men have no choice but to pretend to use some force in such cases .However, the case of those who defile children or rape under age gir